What are Friends for?

Have you been alone where no one to turn or no one is accompanying you especially in difficulty and need? No one wants to be lonely and left behind, people need at least somebody to speak to. It is easy to be happy when there is someone giving encouragement and cheer up, because being alone always drives people into self blame and regretting unless there is a specific reason to be alone.

Appreciate all your friends now and do not hurt them, you may revoke them for good reason so that they realize their mistake. Friendship is a connection and unity that link in networks, where everyone is connected and playing their rules to support each other.
However having friends is not a simple think that you can take granted, remember the golden rules where you must treat other like what you want them to treat you. Think less about them to help and comfort you, now think about you to help them and comfort them especially to your old friends.

When in trouble help them in advices, support (money and moral), show them the way, be with them as a good listener, and make them feel like there are still people who care for them during turbulence time. As a good friend you must approachable so you are there when they need you, always welcome them whenever they look for you. Make yourself reliable and trustworthy by keeping your words to them and keep all personal in confidence. A good and true friend is a trustworthy and reliable friend.

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Her Birthday Present

There were husband and wife who love each other like other normal family. They have two kids, lovely son and daughter. They hardly cry and always happy together until one day the when wife is celebrating her birthday (no specific age). A week before the party, the husband was left clueless cannot think of present for his dear wife.

Finally when the day to celebrate the wife’s birthday, they gathered together and having dinner to celebrate. The two kids have had their gift to their mom, their presents were fantastic that the wife felt so happy, the husband feel the same happy for his wife and present his hard thought present. The present was covered and wrapped beautifully in a big box, it makes the wife so wondered of what it might be. In a big smile and happy heart she opened up the box, suddenly her face covered with silence of sad and disappointed.

Everybody shocked with her reaction, the husband asked politely to the wife why does she turned to sad. At that moment the wife already crying and answered him “why did you gave me FISH HEAD as a birthday present?”. She cannot believe just how cruel her husband giving her fish head as a birthday present.

In a slow tone the husband asked the wife (follow below conversation).
Husband: Why did you cry honey? I thought I gave you the best present ever?
Wife: Why did you give me Fish Head? Everyone gave me nice present except you?
Husband: I thought you like Fish Head so much, all this while during our dinner you always took the Fish Head. In the past I already gave you new dresses, shoes, jewelry, and so on. I want to give you something special this time that I haven’t gave to you before.
Wife: I took the Fish Head and gave the rest to you and the kids because I want you all to have the best part of the fish, I want to give the best to our family and took the head that have not much to eat. I don’t like the Fish Head, I just took it for you and the kids sake. So everyone will have the best… (crying..)
Husband: (in shock and touched crying) I am so sorry dear, I misunderstand the fact and wrongly gave you the present that I thought you like. Forgive me dear and I will not do this mistake again.

On that night all the family member crying not because they sad, but touched with each other. they realize that they love each other in a very deep way even though it causes the misunderstanding. They ended up celebrating her birthday party in cry for love and grateful for their family.

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How Can I Forgive?

Many people are hurt every day especially on relation, being betrayed and cheated are the most common source of hurt. This hurt will last long or forever as a grievance and revenge, people swear not to forgive for “hurt will be paid by hurt”. Mostly those who are being hurt by other are the victims who need helps from us.

Unable to forgive is a fatal disease that weakens and killing people in a long term, a good person may turn into devil for the sake of getting revenge. If you are one of the victim and seeking hardly for help, you are just in the right place.

There are seven tips you can learn and apply to overcome the state of revenge:
1. Surrender every burden to GOD
2. Realize that there are people who still love you and care for you, especially your parents.
3. Tell yourself that you are special, there are things that you can do better
4. Tell yourself that the hurt will not last forever
5. Overcome your hurt by helping other who are in hurt
6. Think and remember your prime time (Success and achievement)
7. Appreciate what you have now.

You do not need to wait for other to forgive, you can forgive other before anyone else do first. Be a leader to yourself and lead other, the only way we can be strong is trough unity and integration. These can be achieved by reconciling all doubt, problem, clash, betrayal, and many more.

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Good Relationship

Good relationship is the key to live in harmony, mutual understanding, cooperation, and happy life. We need to maintain good relation to our love one, family, friends, colleague, and many more. Some relationship end quickly because people were unable to sustain their relation, today we are going to learn few steps or keys to a balance and harmony relationship.

1. Being open and good listener, help other by listening to their grieves and offer advices.

2. Brighten up other by words of encouragement, use carrot principle by giving reward for achievement.

3. Never use silent treatment, blame, on any argument. Try to face the argument and find solution

4. Give sometime to other to calm down, avoid word fighting during hot tampered.

5. Try to delay bad argument, wait until both sides are calm down

I hope that with those simple tips can help everyone on keeping good relation and sustainable understanding among each other. have patient and thing for better, put emotion into second issues. Happy a great day to all

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